Blame Game - Find a scapegoat!

Its quite easy to blame someone and try to cover up. No matter how deep you were involved. When all the postmortem you can walk away, guilt free and happy that you didn't get banished for the act.

But what happens when something happens in your life... Whom do you blame ???

Things do happen - Good or Bad..that's the way life is and you are solely responsible for it. Its easy to accept things as they come and accept them Fate and sit quite and await as your destiny unfolds. But what seem to be happen is that these things keep on happening and you go offtrack from the road to Destiny.

Destiny is like a journey ... as long as you are doing good, you remain on the Highway..speeding ahead ...the moment you loose track you reach City roads and get struck in traffic. Its your will power to get out of the Traffic and hit the Highway again. The more you wander in the City traffic...more is your journey getting delayed... unfortunately, there doesn't seem to an end for this journey, it is an continuous road crossing countries and covering the entire planet..endless roads...

I seem to be stuck in City roads now and seem to be blaming circumstances, surroundings, everyone & everything ..just to remain guilt free and seems like Life has finally caught up ! ..its time i put pedal on the gas and zoom out soon to my highway !

There are dreams, plans and sometimes its quite better to keep them a secret and let them reveal themselves as time passes by. This seems to be quite a planned feature in my life. Anything that i publicize about:

• something in my possession that i am proud of.
• some goal which i feel i am going to get.
• some relationship which i am happy to be part of.
• something that i constantly feel happy and satisfied that i have in my possession.

etc etc....

It seems like the moment i tell everyone about any of the above, my sixth sense does give me a hint that this may not be case anymore. The dove might just escape from my cage ... and there it happens !... this is a repeated case... over and over....

keeping it a secret till it reveals itself is probably the best solution...

Wondering what this post is all about ... this is a recent getaway i was being happy about and told everyone i met.. felt happy that finally i am close to something i like...things going as planned ..etc..etc.. and finally it bombed today !! ... for a moment, it felt nothing short of an earthquake...

.. i had given my 70% but this wasn't enough... rest of 30% was destiny..probably a road not meant to be taken (something to cheer up !)

everything happens for a reason..let's wait & watch for this one !

Supposing you have tried and failed again and again.

You may have a fresh start any moment you choose,

for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down, but the staying down.